Collaborating not competing or compromising for a Better Relationship with Dr Abby Medcalf

In a relationship it’s inevitable there will be times where we both don’t want the exact same thing at the same time. When that happens, we have choices we can make. Do we want to create a win-lose situation where one person gets their way, a lose-lose situation where both people don’t completely get what they want or a third option to collaborate and create a win-win outcome for everyone. The best relationships are great at collaborating.

Abby Medcalf is a Relationship Maven, psychologist, author, podcast host and TEDx speaker who has helped thousands of people think differently so they can create connection, ease and joy in their relationships. She’s the author of the #1 Amazon best-selling book, “Be Happily Married, Even if Your Partner Won’t Do a Thing,” and the host of the top-rated “Relationships Made Easy” Podcast.

We chat about...

  • Why competing and keeping score in a relationship doesn’t work  
  • Relationship maths and why we need to come as a whole person
  • Why outsourcing can be the best thing for your relationship

with Dr Abby Medcalf

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